How to Find the Perfect Size Condom and Put it on Correctly
Condoms are the best way to prevent the spread of infections, other than abstaining. Condoms are referred to as a “barrier method”, because they provide an obvious barrier of protection during sexual activities.
Which sexual activities require a condom?
Any skin-to-skin contact outside of an agreed upon monogamous relationship requires a barrier method to ensure safety. You can get infections from oral, anal and vaginal sex, as well as skin-to-skin contact. (That’s right, just rubbing up against each other could lead to unwanted problems.)
Are you monogamous? Have you both been tested? It is essential to have a discussion with sexual partners about whether you are both going to be monogamous prior to giving up condom use. If you are not choosing monogamy (which is a fine and valid choice), do you trust your partner to make wise choices with others?
It is a myth that STI's (Sexually Transmitted Infections) can be detected visually. Most people infected with an STI show zero visual symptoms, so while a partner may look or seem clean, they could have an infection. Wrap it up and protect yourself. Every single time.
Your condom is only going to be effective in preventing STI's and unwanted pregnancy if it fits correctly. If a condom is too big it could slip off, and if it's too small it could tear. The wrong fit will never feel comfortable, and could cause safety issues.
How do you find the right condom fit?
If you're not sure what size you should be wearing, you can measure your penis. Both length and width are factors in deciding the right condom size. Standard condoms usually have a width of 1.75-2 inches and a length between 7-8 inches. The snug fit condom is a slightly smaller fit, with a tighter width of less than 1.75 inches. Those seeking a larger fit might enjoy a large or extra size condom, which accommodates a penis width of over 2 inches and is often a little over 8 inches in length.
How do you put a condom on correctly?
First, check the date on the wrapper. We all know that using an expired condom may not be effective. Using a prophylactic that has been carried around in a purse or wallet for a long time is also not a good idea. Condoms can dry out, which makes them more likely to rip or tear.
Don’t try to put the condom on too early. It is really important that the penis has proper blood flow and that a good erection has formed prior to putting a condom on.
You also do not want to wait too long. Skin to skin contact during foreplay is not safe, and could lead to an STI and/or pregnancy. Neither of you may notice that drop of pre-ejaculate, but it could be loaded with sperm or an untreated infection.
Be careful with your condom. Condoms can get rips and tears in them from fingernails, teeth, or any other sharp edge. While it may be tempting, don't take it out of the package and leave it someplace, like on the nightstand, for later. Open it and put it on.
Condoms roll in one direction, so notice which way the condom rolls.
Some penis havers like to put a small drop of lube inside their condom for better comfort. A drop will do - think less is more. You don’t want to slide out of your barrier method.
Before rolling it onto the penis, make space at the condom tip using fingertips by pinching the tip of the condom to get the air out of it. You will want that little space for sperm during ejaculation.
Roll the condom all the way to the very bottom of the penis. It is imperative that the condom be rolled down as far as possible to provide protection. Now you’re good to go!
Because condoms come in different materials, textures and shapes, I would recommend experimenting with different brands till you find the best fit for you. Or, you can also have condoms made to order, to assure the ultimate perfect fit.